Abusive Degradation

Wise words! There is nothing worse than the constant degradation of spirit spewed by abusers. Words Hurt.

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“You will never be able to survive without me.”

“You are going to bankrupt this family.”

“Would you like to go sit in the car? Continue talking like this and you can go sit in the car.”

“What are you, stupid?”

“Now that you have a job, you will need to pay the bills. I can’t support you if you are working. Here’s a list of everything you owe the family.”

“you’re so ugly, nobody will ever want to sleep with you. You better stay with me; no one else will want you.”

“You’re more of a man then I am”

“Take off all your clothes now. I want sex. RIGHT NOW WOMAN!”

“Who’d you sleep with now?”

“You are so fat!” or “BEEP! BEEP! BEEP!” when she was bending over while pregnant

“Everyone’s gonna think I’m having dinner with a street walker.”

“You can do NOTHING”

“I met a…

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