Well.... how young are you thinking? 20? 25? 16? 18? 13? I read an article (which horrified me in it's incorrect assumptions and conclusions, so I'm not linking it) recently that concluded marriage at 16 was a good thing, to be encouraged. They said there is nothing wrong with sex at 16 if you were…Read more Were We Created to Marry Young?
To an abusers mind, they are not to blame for anything that goes wrong and thus they are not responsible for fixing any problem in their life or relationships. This puts the onus of marital repair on their victim. This mentality is encouraged by a number of things... most marriage self-help books are written to women.…Read more It Takes Two