In many abusive relationships, the abuser is a fabulous person. They can be: fun to be with hard workers great parents supportive friends always helpful volunteer or work at church active in the community publicly affectionate verbally supportive quick with jokes eager to always be with their partner Right up until the moment they aren't.…Read more Is It Normal?
How do you feel? Is it okay for you to feel that way? An abuser will answer no, it doesn't matter how you feel. The only time emotions matter with an abuser is when it is their emotions. My ex took this concept to a new level. He didn't restrict his projection to just emotions,…Read more Projection